Dear Bif, Three months ago I got a small red Chow (Pretzel.) She is almost 2 years old and very sociable and agreeable--"not a mean bone in her body." The problem is with my other dog (Patches), a 7-year-old Sheltie. Pretzel loves to play but Patches won't play. Not only will she not play, she has become a tyrant, not even wanting to let Pretzel into the house proper and certainly not upstairs. I do notice that they are actually now getting a little closer physically, but what can I do to improve the situation? I try to give Patches extra attention, but then I feel sorry for Pretzel. - Yoeye

Extra attention may be counter procedure because of the jealousy factor. They are still adjusting to the new living situation. The chow is still trying to play "puppy". The sheltie wants no part of it. She's trying to stay "top-dog" and be in control. As long as there is no real biting or bloodshed, you can just let them set their own limits and slowly grow to like and accept each other. It may take a while, have patience. Don't force it!

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